“If any want to become my followers, let them deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me.”
This is Jesus’ call to discipleship. And it is a harder call to the disciples and to us than Jesus’ original call to “Follow me.” For in this call to discipleship, Jesus challenges all who want to be followers to “deny themselves.” In other words, the call to discipleship is a call to put Jesus and Jesus’ way first. Period.
Jesus also invites those who wish to follow to “take up their cross.” Unfortunately, “take up your cross” has been used, sometimes by preachers, to justify abuse and subservience as “your cross to bear.” This is not what Jesus is saying. Some people also use “this is my cross to bear” as a description of hardship. I don’t want to minimize when someone is hurting. But I don’t think this is what Jesus is talking about either.
For the disciples, they would likely have heard “take up your cross” as a call to be prepared to die – after all, in those days a cross was not a symbol of the crucified and risen Lord Jesus but was the symbol of death, the electric chair of their day.
Dietrich Bonhoeffer, a pastor who died in WWII for the way that he stood up against Hitler, once said, when Jesus calls you – meaning all baptized people - he is calling you to come and die.” Come and die.
So, in answering Jesus’ call we need to ask the question: What needs to die? And I think the answer is: Putting yourself or anything else before Jesus.
That was Peter’s problem. He was putting his ideas of what a Messiah would do – namely, restore Israel to power by putting a good king Jesus on the throne and by sending the Roman occupiers packing. That is the “earthly” things that Peter was likely imagining. That is the way of the world.
Do you remember the game Monopoly? In that game, the one who has the most land, money and stuff wins. That is the way of the world. Seeking your own self-interest, the interest of your team, or even of your country over the way of Jesus is what Jesus is calling you to deny. That is what needs to die, so that you can truly live. That is what discipleship means – denying your own Ego self and following Jesus even though it goes against the way of the world. This is the life of discipleship.
This leads to the next question: how do we do that? Paul gives the Romans and us some helpful insights into a life of discipleship. It almost sounds like bullet points but it is not a checklist but rather describes a way of life.
Paul encourages us to:
· Rejoice in hope.
· Be patient in affliction
· Persevere in prayer.
These are actions that are much easier to say than to do. But being mindful of these can help strengthen our inner as well as our communal life.
Paul has a lot more to say about our relationships with one another.
· Let love be genuine.
· Hold fast to what is good
· Love one another with mutual affection;
· Outdo one another in showing honor.
· Contribute to the needs of the saints.
· Pursue hospitality to strangers.
· Rejoice with those who rejoice; weep with those who weep.
· Live in harmony with one another.
· Do not be arrogant, but associate with the lowly
This is what we are called to do as a church community. I was so happy to see the hospitality given to both friends and strangers at our Gathering with the Big Band last Wednesday night. And, as Pastor Colin and I have met with the New Creation Visioning Groups over the summer, I see the desire to honor the other, to love and care for one another and to hold fast to what is good growing between us. When we do these things, loving one another, showing honor and hospitality to the other, contributing to the needs of the church and the neighbor, then we are practicing discipleship. These are not items on a list to accomplish – this is the way we as Christians are called to live with one another and our community.
Paul also writes about how we are to treat our enemies.
· Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them.
· Do not repay anyone evil for evil.
Paul is calling us to a higher and more noble standard than the world lives by. Instead of cutting off food supplies, Paul says, “if your enemies are hungry, feed them; if they are thirsty, give them something to drink.”
This all sounds noble and the way I think Jesus would have us treat our neighbor. After all, Jesus says, love your neighbor as yourself and love your neighbor as I have loved you.
But then… we get to the end of this passage full of noble goodness and mercy and we read, “for by doing this you will heap burning coals on their heads.” I’ll admit, this part makes me laugh out loud. What is Paul thinking?! Is he, at the end, appealing to our baser nature, realizing that what we really want to do is to heap burning coals on our enemies heads? Is he suggesting that we should smugly “kill them with kindness” but rest assured that they will get what they deserve? To be honest, that is what I always thought he was saying.
But this time, I read another commentary that pointed me to another explanation. The statement about feeding your enemy who is hungry and giving a drink to the one who is thirsty and heaping burning coals upon their head is almost a direct quote from Proverbs. But in the days in which the proverbs were written, “Heaping burning coals upon an enemy’s head” was not a punishment; rather the opposite. For in those days, if the hearth’s fire goes out, it threatens the ability to prepare food and to keep warm. So, if a fire did go out, one would typically go to a neighbor and ask for burning coals and carry them back home in a container upon their heads. So not only are we to feed our enemies and give them something to drink but also help them to sustain their life. The only vengeance is to be God’s vengeance and that looks a lot like the Gospel logic of love.1 This is the kind of cross that Jesus asks us to carry. For it is out of love that Jesus carried his cross.
The Gospel logic of love sounds like a beautiful way for us to answer Jesus’ call to deny ourselves, take up our cross and follow Jesus– but in our ever increasingly fractured world, how do we even attempt to live like this?
This past week, as most of you probably know, famed singer, actress and business woman Dolly Parton died. I am not someone who reads People magazine or pays much attention at all to celebrities. But even I knew who Dolly Parton was. However, I did not know much. I was curious about the way Dolly seemed to touch people whose lives ordinarily do not overlap: drag queens, evangelical Christians, hipsters, elected leaders and all sorts of ordinary people. And, when I started reading, I realized why she affected so many different kinds of people. Dolly followed the Gospel of love in her words and actions. When asked about her faith, she said, “I really like to think it’s God spark” and went on to talk about how she prayed for God to lead her and guide her and to let some love pass through her. This is how she began a life of faithful service, building Dollyland in the poor area in which she was born to bring jobs to that region, starting her Imagination Library which buys books for children under age five, and raising millions of dollars for people wildfire and flood victims and the list goes on. She simply believed that those who were in a position to help others – should do so. And so she did. Dolly was a beautiful example of following the Gospel logic of love.
Brothers and sisters, friends in Christ, as we seek to answer Jesus’ call to become his followers, let us continue to pray for the Holy Spirit to open our heart to love and care for one another and all our neighbors so that we may learn how to take up their cross and follow Jesus.
1Nancy Lammers Gross https://www.workingpreacher.org/commentaries/revised-common-lectionary/ordinary-22/commentary-on-romans-129-21-7
2. The “ Jesus Calling” podcast 2018